Sister Dear: No more drama in my life

DON'T BOTHER

Oh my god, the melodrama! The main character just endlessly whinges and laments her own self-hatred, plays her mother's cruel voice over and over in her head, goes on sickening binges of emotional overeating and purging; and then flagellates herself. It all seems so obvious and tediously overblown. Plus the villains in the story -- her mother, her sister, her biological father -- are all such cardboard cut-outs of shallowness and direct cruelty. I keep giving up and going on to other books, so I may never finish this one...

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